Searching for ancestors is big business in the tourism industry. A twenty-five-year search for her mysterious grandfather led writer-director Mouna Mounayer to the heart of Romania. Surrounded by the majestic circle of the Carpathian Mountains, Targu Mures held the first real clues to his origins. Raluca Spiac, CEO of Beyond Dracula, organised and accompanied Mouna and her family on their journey to find the elusive man whose blood ran through their veins.

Part Two: Chasing the records office lady

By Mouna Mounayer

Mouna Mounayer in Transylvania, Romania (photo ©️Mouna Mounayer)

‘You have a Matrimonial,’ said the gangly bellboy with a flourish.

In all the years of my travels, I’d never heard that expression used to describe a room with a double bed. My family and I had checked into the Haller Castle Hotel in Ogra, on the final leg of our journey to Targu Mures, where, according to Claudiu, the historian-guide Raluca Spiac (CEO of the Beyond Dracula bespoke travel agency) had hired, we would find some concrete information or at least a clue in the search for a grandfather whose existence had only come to light in 1990.

Shades of Jonathan Harker’s sojourn in Castle Dracula played through my mind as I followed the bellboy down the dark corridors of the seventeenth century baroque-style castle towards my Matrimonial room. He opened the creaking bedroom door with an enormous antique-looking metal key, which looked as if it could be used as a lethal weapon. The room, decorated in elaborately carved chocolate brown furniture, was the size of a small apartment with a bed so vast six couples could have slept in it without bumping into each other. Romanians obviously take their matrimonial beds very seriously. I turned the lights off and reclined in the middle of the bed. Long shadows, cast by the full moon outside my window, stretched ominous fingers across the nooks and crannies of the vaulted ceiling. I tossed and turned, like a princess being poked by a pea. What would I discover about George in Targu Mures? Would I find his descendants still living here and would they perhaps have a photograph of him? I so wanted to look upon the face of this ghost who’d haunted me across two centuries. And what do I say if asked to show documentary proof that he and I are related? I had no proof except for my grandmother’s word. After two and a half decades, would the quest for my grandfather end in the next twenty-four hours?

Earlier in the evening, over a five-course dinner of Romanian traditional fare and copious amounts of wine, Claudiu had instructed me to buy a box of chocolates and a bouquet to thank the woman in the births, marriages and deaths records bureau who was going to help us. She had said to Claudiu that she would leave the document open on her desk, so I could take a quick look at it. It should contain ample information on George and his parentage to allow me to continue my search. But doing this was tricky. The woman could get into serious trouble with the authorities, because I had no paperwork linking me to George. This kind woman was doing Claudiu a favour as a friend. Raluca reassured me we were not doing anything wrong and that it was not my fault that I had no evidence to back up my story. She, like most people to whom I relate this tale, wanted to know what happened to George. Why did he leave India without my grandmother? How did he get there in the first place, during a world war, and did the story have some kind of happy ending for him? I was not so sure a happy ending was in the stars. A stateless Austrian, with a sealed British government file, was either a good guy who had found himself in a bad situation or a bad guy on the run. My grandmother had mourned his loss for fifty years, but had refused his offer of a new life in America after the war. As a devout Catholic, she could not contemplate divorcing her husband and running away with George. My twenty-five-year search would either end tomorrow or it would not. I switched the bedside table light on and grabbed the gigantic metal bedroom key, just in case the shadows decided to peel off the walls.

Targu Mures, Mures County, Transylvania, Romania (photo ©️ Unsplash)

The following morning, the sun shone in a soft, grey-blue sky as our three-car convoy crossed the Mures River. Targu Mures, located in the geographic centre of Transylvania, is a pastel-coloured Belle Époque market town with a busy central boulevard. I wondered why my grandfather, an Austrian, was born here? What were his parents doing in this backwater of the Austro-Hungarian Empire? But I was jumping the gun. First, I had to find proof he was actually born here, and I hoped the rest would come later. Earlier that morning, it had been agreed that Claudiu and I would go to the government records office while the rest of the family, Raluca and our guide Greg, would visit various sites in the town. We would all meet up in an hour at the synagogue, in case George turned out to be Jewish, and they, too, had a record of his birth.

I am convinced that the architects who design government buildings have all studied at the same school of architecture. Wherever you are in the world, government offices are sure to depress you. Grey pervades the eye and the faint metallic stink of disinfectant assaults the nose as you wait and wait and wait for someone to help you. Tired of waiting, Claudiu and I sauntered past the queues and marched confidently to the department of the woman who had promised to help us. With jangling nerves and heart in mouth, I knocked on her door, and, without waiting, stepped in, chocolate box and flowers at the ready.

Claudiu and I entered an unprepossessing windowless room, cramped by too many desks covered in thirty-year-old computers and stacks of files. An exchange in Romanian ascertained our lady wasn’t there. Her colleagues said she was in a meeting down the road. We could catch her if we hurried. So, we rushed out and up into yet another grey building. We just missed her. ‘She’s gone back to her office,’ said a man coming out of a conference room. Again we hurried back out and ran down the boulevard, past my ambling family and back to the original building. We missed her again. This time she’d gone to a meeting at the Palace of Culture. Down the stairs we stumbled, running all the way to the home of the Targu Mures Philharmonic Orchestra.

Palace of Culture, Targu Mures, Romania (photo ©️Mouna Mounayer)

The Great Hall, designed in Art Nouveau Secession style, Palace of Culture,

Targu Mures (photo ©️Mouna Mounayer)

 By the time we entered the splendid Art Nouveau edifice designed in Secession style, I was winded and feeling a little desperate, torn between gaping at the magnificent golden glow of the domed ceilings in the Great Hall and worrying that my chocolate present had melted, because my bouquet certainly looked as if I’d bought the flowers a week ago instead of that morning.

Claudiu searching for the lady from the records bureau, Palace of Culture,

Targu Mures (photo ©️Mouna Mounayer)

The Targu Mures Philharmonic Orchestra rehearsing (photo ©️Mouna Mounayer)

As Claudiu ran around the building looking for our target, I heard heavenly voices. Following the sound, I snuck into the empty concert hall and sat in the gods to watch the Philharmonic Orchestra and Choir rehearse. Charmed by this impromptu recital, I didn’t hear my mobile ring. For ten minutes I forgot my quest, swept away by the hauntingly melodic voices of the choir. Claudiu eventually tracked me down and off we went back to the lady’s office. She was at her desk. Finally!

I sat in a corner by a rusty filing cabinet under the curious gaze of her colleagues, trying to look nonchalant while Claudiu and the woman argued in whispers. She was shaking her head. Heart sinking, I got up and put the wilted flowers and sweaty chocolate box on her desk and smiled pleadingly. The woman’s eyes darted past me to her colleagues. Then she sat down and typed on her ancient computer.

As Claudiu and I ambled in dejected silence to the synagogue where my family had been waiting for almost three hours, I wondered why I could not catch a break in my search for George? Was the universe trying to tell me to leave well enough alone? I shuffled into the nineteenth century temple with a cursory glance at the stained-glass rosettes decorating the front of the edifice.

My sister, mother and Raluca ran towards me.

‘He’s here,’ they said. ‘We found him!’

 Join us next time for part three of the search for George on The Road To Targu Mures.